Premarital & Post-Marital Counseling
Build a Foundation for Forever
Offered through Lux Counseling Services
At Ruban Bleu Weddings, we believe that your wedding is just the beginning—and a strong foundation starts with open hearts, honest conversations, and intentional preparation.
That’s why we’re proud to offer premarital and post-marital counseling sessions through our trusted partner, Dr. Pamela Pitts of Lux Counseling Services.
Meet Dr. Pamela Pitts
If you're searching for a space of true healing, restoration, and empowerment, look no further. Dr. Pamela Pitts combines clinical expertise with a deeply compassionate, spiritually grounded approach to counseling. Her sessions are more than conversations—they are sacred spaces for transformation.
Dr. Pitts is known for her ability to hear beyond the words, equip couples with real tools for connection, and help them unpack the past while boldly stepping into their future together. Her calming presence and strategic methods create an environment where clarity, alignment, and deep emotional breakthroughs are not just possible—they’re expected.
Session Options & Packages
Foundations Session
Investment:
30 minutes – $30
1 hour – $60
A focused session for couples who want to explore a specific concern, gain insight into an area of their relationship, or prepare for marriage with personalized support. Great for check-ins, first-time sessions, or follow-up conversations.
The Vow Session
Investment: $60
A powerful one-hour session designed to help couples connect more deeply, align on expectations, and strengthen communication. Ideal for those seeking clarity, confidence, and tools for a smooth transition into marriage.
Private 1-hour session
Communication tools
Relationship check-in
Expectations mapping
The Ever After Series
Investment: $180
A comprehensive, three-session series that walks couples through the core areas of a lasting marriage. Together, you’ll uncover values, strengthen your emotional bond, and create a shared vision for your future.
Three private 1-hour sessions
Communication and conflict resolution
Goal-setting and relationship planning
Optional faith-based guidance
Customized support based on your unique dynamic
What You’ll Explore
Communication
Develop healthy, clear communication skills and tools for tough conversations.
Values & Beliefs
Explore your core beliefs, religious views, and life philosophies.
Children & Parenting
Discuss parenting styles, future family plans, and expectations.
Conflict Resolution
Learn how to handle disagreements respectfully and constructively.
Conflict Repair & Forgiveness
Learn tools to navigate reconciliation, rebuild trust, and foster emotional safety after misunderstandings or hurt.
Marriage Goals & Vision
Create a shared blueprint for your life together.
Financial Matters
Discuss budgeting, debt, money habits, and shared financial goals.
Roles & Expectations
Align on household responsibilities, career goals, and lifestyle balance.
Personal History & Baggage
Address past experiences or traumas that may impact your relationship.
Family & In-Laws
Understand each other’s family dynamics and set healthy boundaries.
Intimacy & Sexuality
Have open, honest conversations about needs, expectations, and desires.
Time & Lifestyle Priorities
Discuss how you want to spend your time- from daily routines to travel, leisure, work-life balance, and shared rhythms.
Why counseling matters before and after marriage
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To identify potential areas of conflict early
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To develop strategies for navigating disagreements
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To improve communication and problem-solving skills
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To create deeper mutual understanding and emotional safety
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To lay the foundation for a healthy, sustainable marriage
Premarital counseling is a proactive, empowering step toward not just a beautiful wedding—but a beautiful life together.
Who This Is For
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Engaged couples preparing for marriage
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Newlyweds adjusting to life together
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Long-term couples wanting a relationship reset
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Couples navigating specific challenges (conflict, past trauma, intimacy, etc.)
Client Testimonials
Jasmine & Cory, June 2023
“Dr. Pitts helped us build the tools we needed before we even realized we needed them.”
Morgan James, NY
“We left every session feeling stronger, heard, and closer.”
Lisa Driver, MI
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Can I write my own vows?Yes, absolutely! We encourage you to write your own vows if it feels meaningful to you. Your vows are a personal expression of your love and commitment, and we're happy to help incorporate them seamlessly into the ceremony. If needed, we can also offer guidance or review your vows to ensure they flow well with the overall ceremony structure.
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How far in advance should we book an officiant?We recommend booking your officiant at least 3 to 6 months in advance to ensure availability and allow ample time to customize your ceremony. If you have a specific date or are planning during peak wedding season, earlier is always better. This also gives us time to get to know you as a couple and create a ceremony that reflects your unique story.
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Do your officiants travel for destination weddings?Yes, our officiants are happy to travel for destination weddings! Whether your celebration is a few hours away or across the country, we can discuss travel logistics and associated fees during your consultation to ensure everything is seamless. We're committed to making your ceremony meaningful wherever it takes place.
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Can we request a specific officiant?Yes, you can absolutely request a specific officiant from our team. If they are available on your wedding date, we’ll gladly assign them to your ceremony. We want you to feel comfortable and connected with the person leading such a special moment. If your preferred officiant is unavailable, we’ll recommend another trusted team member with a similar style and approach.
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Are you LGBTQ+ inclusive? (Yes!)Yes, absolutely! We are proudly LGBTQ+ inclusive and honored to celebrate love in all its beautiful forms. Every couple deserves a ceremony that reflects their unique story, and we are committed to creating a welcoming, respectful, and affirming experience for all. Love is love always.